Helping Your Child Feel Special
We live in a world that is not really friendly to children on a number of different levels. This is due, in part, to things that are portrayed in the media, such as the perception of a perfect body which is unattainable for many of us. These things are affecting our children at a much younger age, and we may find that our child is lacking in self-esteem as a result of these issues. This can result in a number of different problems, many of which are difficult for us to handle as parents. When you find yourself in this situation, it is important for you to understand that it is not your fault, but it is your responsibility to assist your child in feeling special.
The unfortunate thing is, a child may not be willing to listen to their parents in this regard which can make it more difficult for us to handle an already volatile situation. That is why it may be necessary for you to boost your child's self-esteem and to give them a feeling of worth without being so open about it that it causes them to retract away from you. This balancing act is something that many of us have a difficult time obtaining, but it certainly is possible if we are patient.
When a child is at a delicate age and they are struggling with feelings of worthlessness, it is something that can affect them throughout their entire life. If you are able to turn the tide and to give them the self-confidence necessary in order to realize that they are special, it is something that will affect them in a positive way. Although this may be difficult at times to maintain, it is going to be worth the effort and it will help to top off a 20 year project of raising our children to be healthy and happy with themselves.
Maureen Amberg is an author, entrepreneur and children’s advocate for MEA Online Edge Inc., with emphasis on the self esteem and positive inner confidence of children; including teenagers. Caring for Kids is my current life focus. I strive to be kind, tranquil, serene, and compassionate. Hopefully, this translates into peaceful, calm and helpful.
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- Maureen is an author,entrepreneur and children's advocate for MEA Online Edge Inc., with emphasis on the self esteem and self confidence of children; including teenagers. Caring for Kids is my current life focus. I strive to be tranquil, serene, and compassionate. Hopefully, this translates into "peaceful and calm".
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"We live in a world that is not really friendly to children on a number of different levels." I noticed this when I was a mother of young children...I notice it even more now as a grandmother! We still don't seem to value all that children are here to teach us! What children have taught me has incredibly altered my life...I feel sorrow for children who are not seen, who are not valued and the adults who don't realize how much they have missed out on in not valuing them!
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